Hear what others have to say about their Relationship Retreat experience

Thank you both so much for being you! You are both amazing beautiful people that I will always hold close to my heart. You have not just saved C & my marriage & family, but have changed our view on life & shown us the positives in people rather than negative views.

C & I feel in love & deeper than ever before on your weekend. I hope to see you both again sooner than later oxox.

SM, South Australia 6-8 September 2024

Thanks a lot Jane. We enjoyed our weekend, and are still using some of the tools!

DE, South Australia 6-8 September 2024

Hi Jane thank you for your kind words. S and I now have a whole different perspective on our relationship. I think every couple should do this. Thank you for the recipes the food was so amazing and felt like good soul food 😀😍

CM, South Australia 6-8 September 2024

It really was wonderful watching everyone work through situations and gaining insights and creating a-ha moments. It's especially encouraging seeing new participants and their enthusiasm to return for another Retreat. I always love hearing that.

One thing we have brought home with us is including a candle ritual into our lives. So most evenings when we sit down to have dinner together, we light a candle, to honour someone or to be thankful for something.

Thank you to you and Sheila, you add so much to our lives and we are forever grateful.

L & A, South Australia 5-7 July 2024

Attending our first couples Retreat with Jane and Sheila was an incredible experience. The Retreat provided great resources, engaging activities, and the opportunity to connect with other couples and hear their stories. The food and the beautiful location were delightful bonuses that enriched the entire weekend.

Initially, my wife and I were unsure of what to expect, and she was more resistant to the idea than I was. However, it was heartwarming to see her open up so quickly and fully embrace the Retreat. We both gained a lot from the session with Sheila, who has an amazing ability to dig deep and offer practical, actionable advice.

If you're considering something like this, take the plunge—you won't be disappointed. The Retreat was run by passionate individuals who genuinely care about relationships. There was no business-like atmosphere; it was all about pure love and focus on fostering better connections.

This was a transformative weekend we'll cherish forever.

KE, South Australia 5-7 July 2024

Thanks for another great learning weekend. And thanks so much for your email Jane, it really made my day!

PG, South Australia 5-7 July 2024

I wasn't sure what to expect and I wasn't sure if my wife would suit the Retreat or engage and I was very happy that she did really open up and show a softer side. I think this is really good for her and I think it has helped us both immensely. It was great to get some more depth with Sheila in the more intimate couples session with Sheila.

I appreciate the tips and insight in your email and am looking forward to exploring more of these things with D. As mentioned it was really well put together, with some great information, activities and food. I can see just how passionate you both are about these topics.

KE, South Australia 5-7 July 2024

D and I just wanted to say a big thank you to you and Sheila for a totally life changing weekend. You were so gracious with your time, home, gifts and of course all the utterly incredible food (and made specially for me with no peanuts). We appreciate all the effort you took to make it such a unique and special experience for us. You created an environment which allowed us to feel safe sharing and learning and trying new things in our relationship and for that we are so thankful.

To honour the program we are committed to taking what we have learned forward and look forward to coming back for further growth opportunities in the future. We certainly look forward to the next Retreat and will look out for those dates in November.

Till then, take care 😊😊

L and D, South Australia, 14-16 June 2024

Thank you for the weekend as it has given us some hope and strategies and for all the good ideas to reconnect with each other.

JL, Northern Territory, 14-16 June 2024

Fabulous weekend once again thank you 😁. S would love your recipes for the eggplant balls and tofu steaks when you catch your breath. Also, I spoke with Sheila about doing some work with her privately.

JR, South Australia, 24-26 May 2024

We thoroughly enjoy attending your Retreats - for the food and company as much as the work (as demonstrated by our annual return) 😊 I definitely need to practice the forgiveness work - often the blocker is not being ready to give up being annoyed 😂

CD, South Australia, 24-26 May 2024

Dear Jane and Sheila and our truly amazing ‘team mates’…I have so much to say, but not now. It’s been a chaotic few days here and very early tomorrow morning I am going to NZ to a 10 day silent meditation retreat. I am very curious to know how our work from the week-end will impact this next amazing experience. Big hugs to you all and I’ll report back upon my return.

KW, Queensland, 24-26 May 2024

Thanks again for an amazing weekend and thanks for the kind words. My wife and I enjoy our time with you and Shiela, as well as the other couples and really admire watching you continuing to challenge yourself and grow your own learning live during the Retreats. I can see how much you really enjoy it.

We’re very much committed to working on ourselves and our Relationship, I hope we can really shift for us and our kids benefit.

It’s a journey that I don’t think we’ll ever get it perfect but it’s fun/challenging to open our minds and keep uncovering new “ah ha” moments!

See you at the next one!

LD, South Australia, 24-26 May 2024

I really enjoyed the weekend with you and Shiela and would like to do another. So would S. It really brings home to me how important taking the time away on a weekend and doing counselling sessions is to actually focusing on important matters and facing issues. Thanks again for the wonderful work you and Shiela do together. Real privilege to be part of it.

Lots of love A.

AM, South Australia, 24-26 May 2024

It’s been very interesting comparing how J and I have incorporated learnings from the Retreat into life since that time, compared to the first time we attended a Retreat (about a year ago). The first time felt a lot more … radical? I think we had bigger changes to make back then, whereas this time it was more about building on the foundations laid from that Retreat. We have folded the forgiveness exercise into our regular time together and it is really effective in loosening the grip of whatever you are stuck on.

SR, South Australia, 24-26 May 2024

I look forward to our date night and feel really strong and passionate about my relationship with my wife at the moment which is such an amazing feeling so credit to you and 'mama Sheila' for always making us feel so welcome and willing to work on ourselves.

TB, South Australia 19-21 April 2024

Thanks so much for your message. I look forward to a date night with my husband next month. I really enjoyed our weekend with you and Shelia. I'm so grateful for your love and support of us doing better for each other.

CB, South Australia 19-21 April 2024

If you are thinking of doing this Retreat, take the plunge. Our Relationship has reached new depths never imaginable and our children are also benefiting. Thank you for this incredible opportunity.

AD, South Australia 19-21 April 2024

Relationships take work and choices, there isn’t one moment of fix, but doing the work together with the love and support of Jane and Sheila has given us the tools to get better for each other and our kids.

CB, South Australia 19-21 April 2024

Hi Jane, we had a great weekend and have come home better than ever. Yes we will def be back. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for both you and Sheila providing this incredible space, your depth of knowledge, wisdom and intuition. Thanks also for the reminder of date night. We are onto it :) With love and gratitude.

AD, South Australia 19-21 April 2024

A and I are extremely grateful for what you and Sheila gifted us on the weekend. A space where we could retreat, learn and commit to our relationship in a new way. Ultimately see each other in a new light. As I mentioned, it really was the circuit breaker we needed to open our hearts back up to each other. You both held the space with so much love, honestly and safety. We truly did not know how we would get out of the resistant place we were in if it wasn’t for you both. So thank you from the bottom of our hearts!

Honestly all married couples need to come to your retreat! It has already brought so much light back in to our relationship and the tools we’ve walked away with are so valuable. We finally feel that connection again after 5 years of it getting further and further apart. You are both incredible. So so grateful for your time, energy and love.

I will most definitely would love to catch up with Sheila again. She’s so close by. I’ll be in touch with her. Thank you!

And yes, would love some of those recipes but only if it’s not too much trouble. Your food was so wholesome. It added a warm hug to the experience.

It’s obvious you love what you are sharing, never stop sharing this magic.

Thanks again, and we will stay in touch as keep you posted with our progress.

AM, South Australia 22-24 March 2024

It was such a gift of a weekend and we are really enjoying taking it through to our daily lives.

CC, South Australia 22-24 March 2024

Thank you for your kind and heartwarming wishes. It has been a memorable experience and we are so grateful to have been a part of it!

JC, Victoria 22-24 March 2024

Dear Jane and Sheila 

Thank you both for an incredible and insightful weekend of learning about ourselves and each other. No doubt the weekend will make us better and stronger as a couple and more connected to each other. Honestly, I keep finding life endlessly fascinating and it's true the learning never stops. 

TB, South Australia 9-11 Feb 2024

We both want to share our most heartfelt thanks for our time with you during our recent Retreat.

The weekend is still with us, we are still connecting, sharing and discovering things together from our time with you both. Focus on Relationships has had a profound impact on our intimacy and we feel like our love has both deepened and been reignited.

For me, the experience of being deeply nurtured by you both was such a wonderful gift. From the love in all your delicious, nutritious cooking Jane, to sharing your beautiful tranquil home with us, and both of you authentically caring for us all; I felt treasured. Something we/I often don’t feel as busy mothers, wives and CEO of the household!

Thank you so much for who you are and what you do for people. Your generosity and commitment to make a difference for couples is both moving and inspiring.

Please feel free to use any or all of the above as a testimonial.

Sending love and gratitude to you both, E & P xx

PS Mum is cooking your delicious carrot cake for my Birthday this week!!! Can’t WAIT.

E & P, South Australia 9-11 Feb

It’s date night this Tuesday and I can’t wait! 

Thanks for an amazing weekend. I’m still in awe of how you and Sheila managed to create such a warm, safe and inclusive space in such a short time. It resurfaced a lot of old wounds for me and allowed me to discuss these with my husband, which to me felt like a problem halved. It also reminded me that everything is better out that in.

T & P, Victoria 9-11 Feb

The Retreat allowed me to open my eyes to all the things that I didn’t realise I didn’t fully understand. It is going to make a big difference to the way my partner and I can grow together as we move forward.

PS, Victoria 9-11 Feb 2024

We had such a fantastic experience! Shiela and yourself were amazing😊 In addition, we felt blessed to have 3 other wonderful couples to participate with and who were all equally committed to improving themselves and their relationships. Thank you for this additional resource. We'll apply this along with the many other tools you've equipped us with to have a more loving and successful relationship.

Our future is bright and full of potential. Over and above the course, your hospitality and generosity made for a magnificent weekend. Looking forward to seeing you again and staying in touch.

JM, South Australia 9-11 Feb 2024

A great and wonderful opportunity to learn so much more about yourself and that of your partner.

BF, Victoria 9-11 Feb 2024

I would definitely recommend to anyone who talks about their relationship. This event is much more than I expected. I had such a great time and was actually willing to learn to grow more with my partner. PS The hospitality was absolutely wonderful! 

PM, South Australia 9-11 Feb 2024

If you are looking to reconnect with your partner or deepen your connection this Retreat will help you find new ways to do just that.

JH, Victoria 9-11 Feb 2024

Given our state of mind entering the Retreat, we thought the best we might do is 'survive' it. But it ended up being so much more for us. I have renewed energy around our Relationship and feel armed with some new strategies to take us to a new exciting place. I am humbled by your generous giving. You opened your home to us, you fed us food prepared with love, you created a community of safety to explore new depths. And you did all this with a deft skill from your long experience and a warm energy from your generous heart. What a gift.

AR, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

This Retreat had a big impact on me, I feel it has been transformative in our Relationship. It has given us simple, practical tools to use and help us grow closer. I would highly recommend it for any couple regardless of how good or bad your Relationship is, it will only make it better. So many amazing ‘take-aways’.

TC, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

This Retreat well-exceeded my expectations. I attended because I value my Relationship and wanted some strategies for refreshing and improving our communication. We came home with numerous easy-to-apply practical strategies that will become part of our daily lives. The facilitators are inspirational, thoughtful, well researched and nurturing. The venue and food were amazing!

KP, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

Jane and Sheila gave us practical, novel and fun activities we can integrate into our lives. Our dynamic has changed for the better.

CR, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

My friend referred me to this Retreat, and I told my wife about it. The venue, the material, the discussions all contributed to a fabulous weekend.

LP, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

Thank you for the weekend we are already seeing the benefits in how we are managing a difficult family situation together, and also I am enjoying more lightness in our Relationship. I really am so grateful that you and Sheila would share your hard earned wisdom and experience with us. Truly generous thank you.

SK, South Australia

As a husband it was a wonderful experience to spend time working on the Relationship that is most precious to me. The Retreat provided me with practical tools to enhance and enrich our Relationship. As a result I feel so much more connected to my partner and so optimistic about our future together.

PC, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

If you struggle talking about your feelings and Relationship this Retreat is a great way to learn techniques to build a stronger Relationship with your partner.

NC, South Australia 10-12 Nov 2023

I have now done many Retreats with my wife and each and every one has a whole lot of new concepts and things to be interested in. Years ago, I was hesitant to attend to our first Retreat at my wife’s request, but now I attend not only for the growth of our Relationship but also for the growth of myself, as a man and a husband.

MR, South Australia 15-17 Sept 2023

Initially we came on a Retreat as a ‘make or break’. In many ways it helped save our marriage. Now we choose to come on Retreats to continue building on what we’ve learned. We believe it helps us get better and better together.

CM and AM, South Australia 15-17 Sept 2023

Attending a Retreat is like having your car serviced. It’s important to keep things running smoothly and attend to any issues before they become major concerns. Well worth a weekend to keep you on track.

AP and LP, South Australia 15-17 Sept 2023

The Retreats are always really, really good. You learn so much in a group of supportive people. Sheila rocks! She is a wonderful woman with a great soul.

PG, South Australia 15-17 Sept 2023

Even if you have a happy and healthy Relationship this Retreat will give you insights into yourself,  your partner and your Relationship that are life-changing. If you are open to the tools, information and insights this Retreat offers, you will open the door to a deeper experience of love for yourself and your partner. This is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself and your Relationship. Thank you and we love you Jane and Sheila! 

SR, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

If you want to heal your Relationship this is the place to come. Just be prepared to share your stories. 

VK, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

The time on this Retreat exceeded our expectations. I did not realise how much we needed it. I got things out of this that were unexpected, heart opening and liberating. Jane and Sheila are absolutely amazing at what they do-and the space they created was safe, reassuring, enlightening and just very enjoyable. We are ten years into our marriage and although things felt good-we got so much out of this. We are leaving feeling WONDERFUL. Such a great investment into our Relationship and our life.

EP, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

This was a life changing experience. I feel more connected to myself and my wife than ever before. I am so excited to continue the learnings as I can see the power it will have on our Relationship. The food and hospitality was incredible. I feel nourished-thank you. So much love to you both. Keep doing what you are doing. 

DP, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

The best weekend. Most rewarding. I felt safe, valued and cared for on so many levels. Great place and atmosphere. Thank you so much.

JR, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

Do the Retreat !

Whether a couple is going through conflict or they are in a happy place, this Retreat has something to offer. There are many tools provided and counselling sessions are tremendous help.

CG, South Australia 11-13 August 2023

This has been one of the best decisions I have ever made. Jane and Sheila make you feel welcomed, understood and comfortable. I feel that that for the first time in a long time I can see a direction forward. If you are contemplating this Retreat DONT! Just DO IT! You wont regret it.

JM, South Australia 28-30 July 2023

Wonderful caring teachers in Sheila and Jane. Amazing location and great food!

SG, Victoria 28-30 July 2023

Jane and Sheila provided a safe environment to share the most personal side of our Relationship and to start the repair. Stunning property, fantastic location and views. We were fed and watered with the most amazing home cooked meals. 

ST, South Australia 28-30 July 2023

Jane and Sheila have created a considered program in a safe space. It was hugely helpful for us to see again that we are each others allies in this journey of life.

CF, South Australia 28-30 July 2023

Confronting, deeply challenging BUT safe and very insightful. My wife and I got a lot out of it. But refer above, very challenging at times. 

AT, South Australia 28-30 July 2023

It has helped me be more aware of my emotions and feelings and therefore giving me the tools to better communicate.

KP, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

A gift to us and our family to have the opportunity to deepen our connection and learn from the rich experience and expertise of Jane and Sheila as well as the other couples who opened their hearts to help us all.

JM, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

Jane and Sheila are incredibly professional and supportive. Its great to get the chance to spend a weekend focusing on our Relationship as it’s a rare opportunity. I also find the group setup supportive and helpful, listening to other people’s suggestions, stories and ideas.

NJ, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

This is an excellent Retreat for people interested in self-improvement and couples’ improvement.

PG, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

It offers the opportunity for a deeper richer more connected Relationship.

AD, Victoria 2-4 June 2023

Jane and Sheila provide great tools and information in a warm and supportive environment. Their food and hospitality is also outstanding.

OB, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

Both my wife and I have benefited enormously from the weekend. Very enlightening. We have come away with a lot of new tools to use.

JD, Victoria 2-4 June 2023

Your Relationship will benefit more than words can describe and you will also have a lot of personal growth.

CW, South Australia 2-4 June 2023

My husband and I have always had a strong Relationship. We began attending these Retreats a few years ago as we wanted a solid foundation to build our Relationship on and not contribute to the high rate of divorce in second marriages. We find each Retreat unique and special. We are always challenged and learn new things every time. It deepens our communication, love and understanding and we leave the weekend a stronger and better equipped couple. We have learned skills that we draw upon daily.

Endless thanks to Jane and Sheila for all they have added to our lives.

LP, South Australia 14-16 April 2023

My wife and I have done many Retreats now and every one of them is better and better, with unbelievable effects on my commitment to our Relationship. I walk away at the end saying WOW! that was better than the last one. The content and hospitality are always outstanding. I recommend anyone with or without conflict in their Relationship to attend these informative Retreats.

MR, South Australia 14-16 April 2023

My connection and communication with my husband has improved, even more that I could have expected. Jane and Sheila are an amazing team and facilitators in helping us get to a wonderful, joyful and positive space. We have taken away some fantastic tools, that we’ve been searching for, for a long time.

CD, Victoria 14-16 April 2023

I continue to learn more about myself and my how my wife ticks. Thanks Jane and Sheila for creating the perfect space to share and learn, confident its helping build a great partnership for the future.

AP, South Australia 14-16 April 2023

With no specific agenda, my wife and I attended the Retreat to explore improving our Relationship, communication and intimacy. We were blown away with the experience, activities and group work. Our Relationship and family will benefit forever more.

We will be back!

MJ, Victoria 14-16 April 2023

We received excellent wisdom and guidance, and we are sure that it will greatly benefit us as a couple and as individuals. Jane and Sheila were amazing, we are grateful for the experience.

AP, South Australia, 4-6 November 2022

My wife and I attended a weekend Retreat with Focus on Relationships. The workshop was even better than our expectations. The amount of knowledge and wisdom given to us over the weekend was incredible. I thought we would need a few workshops to gain what we did over one weekend. We will be recommending this to our adult children.

JD, Victoria 4-6 November 2022

After years of debilitating chronic illness, our Relationship suffered greatly, and my partner had to take on the role of carer for me. The Retreat offered us an opportunity to reflect, re-connect and most importantly, re-pair. Jane and Sheila bring their highly skilled expertise into a unique experience that is nourishing, gentle, supportive and revelatory. They shared tools with us to help us move forward TOGETHER. Through our sessions and workshops, I was also able to gain some significant insights into my patterns and parts that have held me back from connection and vibrant health. I feel hopeful for our future together and I am genuinely looking forward to move in the right direction with my health and partnership. Thank you Jane and Sheila.

JM, South Australia 4-6 November 2022

Thank you so much for the weekend. I felt I was riding a love high for the first few days afterwards. It was everything we had hoped for and more. My husband and I are so thankful to the other couples and send you all our very best wishes.

We've just paid our deposit and look forward to joining another Retreat in 2023!

CM, South Australia 4-6 November 2022

The Retreat made me realise that there are so many ways I can improve my communication and listening skills, not just in the Relationship but also as an individual. Sheila and Jane are so wise and provide such a safe comfortable environment to explore different aspects of our Relationship. We will forever be grateful.

KP, South Australia 4-6 November 2022

Whether your Relationship is going well or struggling I believe this Retreat will provide wisdom and guidance to move out of pain and evolve into new possible ways of loving and being the best version of yourselves together.

AD, Victoria 4-6 November 2022

My wife and I have been on cloud nine since the workshop. One of the best weekends of our lives and I couldn’t help but thank the other couples again for that. You are all such wonderful people, and we are so blessed to have spent time with you all.

We are definitely coming back for part two and three.

JD, Victoria 4-6 November 2022

This is our second Retreat and we have been so excited about continuing the work we have started. The time with Jane and Sheila may not be easy but it is always worth it.

EM, Queensland 7-9 October 2022

A valuable weekend in an incredible house/location with two facilitators who were not just over qualified but understanding and incredibly humble and generous (in a good way!). Fabulous food, lots of laughs with like minded people with a wide variety of activities. A few tears, lots of learning and not only constructive but hugely beneficial for bonding with your partner – sign up!!

ED, South Australia 7-9 October 2022

Every time we come back we take away another little gem that helps us live and learn about our love and marriage.

CB, South Australia 7-9 October 2022

Highly recommend to get reconnected with your partner.

GM, Queensland 7-9 October 2022

We have been to the Retreat four times now and use it as the maintenance program to our Relationship wellbeing.

TB, South Australia 7-9 October 2022

We both agreed to come to a Retreat 2 and were both as equally dedicated and enthusiastic. Jane and Sheila are fairy godmothers. They welcome you with open arms, feed you, nurture you, encourage you through the uncomfortable and challenging and finally celebrate you every step of the way. Life changing and necessary at any age and any stage.

JR, South Australia 16-18 September 2022

I had some initial reluctance about attending, but now I enjoy the Retreats. The Retreats have been an awesome experience to help us maintain our fantastic Relationship. Helps us reconnect and recommit with each other.

AP, South Australia 16-18 September 2022

We really believe that an investment in our Relationship is the best money ever spent. The work done here pulls out the real issues and gives the safe space needed to leave with practical and lifelong lessons for change. Its an experience that lasts a lifetime and commitment to your partner. Thank you

BC, South Australia 16-18 September 2022

As always, a tremendous informative weekend. The quality of all the exercises were helpful for us to see the weakness in our Relationship and to see the many strengths. These exercises help us build on the strengths at the Retreat but also at home every day. Every time I come with my wife, we find something new about each other and ourselves. Would recommend the Retreats to all couples, especially if you have a new relationship, to learn the skills of communication.

MR, South Australia 16-18 September 2022

A practical look into what's blocking me fully being in my relationship with tools to take home and practice.

LD, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

You will find out that something you feel is impossible to fix, is very much not the case. We were given the tools we needed in a friendly and nurturing environment.

MS, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

The Retreat was such an amazing experience. I felt, safe, heard, understood, respected, acknowledged and nurtured. My partner and I went through a magnificent journey of pleasure and pain, which connected us back to our hearts and to each other. It was an emotional roller coaster that has shifted our energy back to each other and the understanding of what the ‘sacred’ feminine and masculine really mean. I am beyond grateful. The food was amazing!!!

AC, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

I was pleasantly surprised by the amount we covered. While the topics were at times confronting and emotional, I felt comfortable to be honest, authentic and share my feelings and experiences. I can’t express how thankful I am for the experience.

LC, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

This kind of thing isn’t usually my style, but I knew I needed an open mind for my wife and relationship. I would say there is real benefit to the Retreat in helping to get back to appreciating your partner and useful tips and ideas on how to feel connected and grow.

CW, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

My wife invited me to this Retreat and I was happy to attend as I knew we needed to work on our relationship of 19 years. This Retreat has been exactly what we needed. It has injected new life into our marriage and for that I am grateful. I look forward to continuing the learning at home and I'm confident it will help us re-kindle our love. Thank you Jane and Sheila.

BA, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

This Retreat is for those that want a deeper connection with their partner (even if there are no problems) and to learn more about not just their partner but themselves. I personally feel a lot of growth as a person and would tell anyone considering-to take the leap, it’s such a high reward. PS Beautiful facilities, leaders and food!

OB, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

The wisdom and warmth that Jane and Sheila share on this Retreat creates a safe place to explore big relationship issues and create new, beautiful and effective ways to re-build connection and love. My heartfelt gratitude and love.

JI, South Australia 19-21 August 2022

Retreat 1 has exceeded my expectations and has opened up the communication and healing journey for my husband and myself. I feel every couple would benefit from the knowledge and teachings of Jane and Sheila-they are both a wealth of expertise and are so incredibly wise. I look forward to Retreats 2 and 3 and can guarantee your Relationships are worth the investment, tenfold. Thank you for having us.

SC, New South Wales, 13-15 May 2022

Very inspiring and well organised. Every time I attend, I learn something about myself and my wife. The structure is supportive and very enjoyable. The quality of the content is unequal to anything I know. I would recommend the Retreats to anyone I know because we would all benefit from relationship work. Loved it!

MR, South Australia 13-15 May 2022

The Retreat allows for precious time to work together, focus on one another, and be provided with helpful tools to improve communication going forward. Sheila and Jane are warm, authentic, and very experienced in guiding couples through unfamiliar territory, whilst ensuring a sense of safety and support.

LM, Queesland 13-15 May 2022

You learn things you didn’t realise you needed to know. You can unlearn habits that weren’t working in your relationship that you may not have even been aware of. This is done in a very welcoming and respectful way. I was definitely surprised how much it helped my wife and I realise some of the things we were doing both wrong and right.

IS, South Australia 13-15 May 2022

Jane and Sheila have taught me a lot about my behaviours and how they stem from early memories. Every couple was open and honest and helped each other. I have met a great bunch of people! Thank you.

CC, New South Wales 13-15 May 2022

I have opened up so much during this Retreat. There is some real gold to experience here sharing with the group and has been such a benefit to my confidence. The food was home cooked and delicious.

RS, South Australia 13-15 May 20222

At first my husband only came to the Retreat because I wanted him to. Now we often do Retreats, and he comes for himself and our Relationship and not just for me. Its so good to know he values our Relationship this much.

KR, South Australia 13-15 May 2022

Jane and Sheila have a great chemistry together bouncing off each other to work through the steps of the Retreat. I'm a very alpha male but felt at ease to share in the space they provide. Thank you.

TL, South Australia 8-10 April 2022

This is our 3^rd Retreat and each time it helps to bring us closer together. We can re-evaluate what's been working or not and how we can move forward more productively. It definitely helps us improve our communication and we both look forward to spending the weekend improving our connection with each other.

NJ, South Australia 8-10 April 2022

If you think you know yourself and your partner and you have a perfect relationship think again. A perfect opportunity to develop self-awareness and build a better Relationship with your partner and others in your life.

AP, South Australia 8-10 April 2022

A group Retreat can feel strange but the love and commitment Jane and Sheila give to each couple and individual is amazingly accurate to the couple’s needs.

SL, South Australia 8-10 April 2022

It’s a great way to actually focus on our Relationship in a open and supportive environment. Gives us tools to use to make our Relationship stronger, helps us understand and support each other.

KM, South Australia 8-10 April 2022

Attending the Retreat now for the third time has given us the chance to work on our communication as a couple. We are now in a place where all of this comes from a place of love, respect and understanding of each other. We are very happily in love again and using the tools that have been lovingly given to us by Jane and Sheila.

CL, South Australia 18-20 March 2022

This Retreat has helped save my marriage to my wife and has helped it in many ways to become a better and stronger one than ever before. It has also helped me personally with many of its lessons and I'm so happy that I have attended this Retreat.

AM, South Australia 18-20 March 2022

This Retreat was magic for our Relationship. We had separated, and while we had tried therapy and counselling, it was the Retreat that brought everything together and reinforced what we had tried elsewhere. Nearly a year on we are together, and our Relationship has never been stronger.

CM, South Australia 18-20 March 2022

It is a fantastic way to discover your partners emotions and feelings and I found many ways to connect with her.

LK, Queensland 4-6 February 2022

Really positive, rejuvenating experience for all couples young and old. Something to learn for everyone. Fabulous location and food. A real treat – do it!

ED, South Australia 4-6 February 2022

I really enjoyed the openness and the guidance to enhance open lines of communication between us both. I enjoyed the weekend and the understanding of a variety of topics to assist our relationship together.

AH, Queensland 4-6 February 2022

A very professional programme delivered in an expert manner in beautiful surroundings. The course content was informative and challenging without being esoteric. Absolute must for any couple looking to improve their relationship with each other and with their self.

LD, South Australia 4-6 February 2022

We received the Retreat as a gift and felt very nervous about attending. From the moment we arrived we felt welcome, comfortable and safe. This has been one of the most productive, empowering, enlightening and restorative Retreats that I have ever completed. I feel more connected to my husband and have more skills to improve our relationship and communication. This has been hugely beneficial for our relationship and I would highly recommend completing a Retreat with Jane and Sheila.

JK, Queensland 4-6 February 2022

Heartfelt thanks to Jane and Sheila for a most enlightening and informative programme, along with your outstanding hospitality. The first couple of hours back with our family were challenging, but I can honestly say that from Sunday evening onwards things have been markedly improved - it really is quite strange....

LD, South Australia 4-6 February 2022

Can’t remember who the instigator was of attending the Retreat but both of us agreed to give it one last go. The week before the Retreat we weren’t going to come but so so glad we did. One of the most important weekends of my life! I can’t even put into words the gratitude I feel towards this space and knowledge you both provided for my husband and I to go ahead with love, depth and play. Much love to you both.

SM, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

It allows you to be open and honest with yourself and your partner. You go on an explorative, thought-provoking journey in a safe and encouraging environment. I feel it has given us permission to speak up and be heard by one another and explore an area of our relationship we have both wanted to evolve.

EM, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

As a man with some initial reluctance, I highly recommend this Retreat. We attended the Retreat to improve our skills in communication and to put in place practices to hold us in good stead in the future. By attending this Retreat now in the lead up to our marriage it sets us up to apply good routines, particularly when challenges emerge in the future.

DK, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

We were almost separated. This weekend of genuine support and simple tools have helped rekindle the deep love we both have for each other. Jane and sheila are gifts from God. Thank you.

M & M, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

A weekend filled with love, words, care and beautiful people. We came with the attitude to make the great, wonderful. We are leaving with a tool kit of wonderful experiences and practical exercises. We loved every day, hour and minute. Thank you.

BC, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

Thank you, Jane and Sheila, from the bottom of my heart for your generosity, genuine care, dedication and love in the preparation and during the Retreat. As I said at the end of Sunday, I really didn’t think (after many years of 1:1 therapy) that this would be as beneficial, eye-opening and healing (for myself as an individual, to heal from my previous relationship and to thrive in my new one) as it was – and in a group! That was very special.

JR, South Australia 12-14 November 2021

A space created to work on ourselves and our relationship encompassing communication, barriers and physical connection. Jane and Sheila create the most beautiful, caring and supportive environment by taking away all life's distractions and decisions so you can truly focus on each other. 

KA, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

100% recommend the Retreats that these two incredible ladies hold. Whether your relationship is rocky, or you need to just 'touch up', the tools you take away will transform your daily outlook on life as well as your relationship.

KA, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

We hear the saying 'relationships take work'. These Retreats give a beautiful space for individuals to work on themselves, for couples to come together to work on things. An amazing place with beautiful people!

SL, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

Be as honest as you can be. Be open and take in this amazing Retreat-so worth it!

TL, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

A safe and nurturing space for couples to connect and explore new ideas or old ideas/issues from a fresh perspective. A comfortable place to explore what makes us uncomfortable.

CD, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

An intimate safe space to challenge, grow and expand individually and as a couple. Great opportunity to relax and reconnect away from the hectic day to day chores of life. Left us re-energised and will come again. 

LD, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

Fantastic environment to develop personally and as a couple. Facilitator is exceptional, creating a comfortable space to learn from other couples also. Highly recommend! Sheila's counselling style gets straight to the issue, impacting your life and relationship.  

SD, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

There are so many skills you learn which can seamlessly be introduced into your relationship. You will be more connected with others, partner and yourself. 

SD, South Australia 15-17 October 2021

An essential tool to connect or enhance your connection with your partner. A valuable weekend to focus on each other. We keep coming back because we want to be the very best version of us.

LP, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

On behalf of myself and G we both wanted to express our deepest thanks for helping us through our first Retreat!! We both experienced incredible lows, exciting news and at time bursts of sheer laughter not only at ourselves but also with the group.

The experience left us exhausted but excited for the future…. We still have a massive up hill road to travel and we’ve already, after one week, had a couple of really tough bumps but speaking for myself it is making me strong as a person/partner!! Thank you.

As for you and Shelia, you are both like one well oiled machine and one wouldn’t work without the other…. I loved watching you together. You have such a special bond and that certainly came through that weekend!! Your food was delicious and your house is what dreams are made of really!! I felt very safe and welcomed there.

I would like to touch base in a year to see how much we’ve grown I hope…. Just need to see how he feels about another weekend, but if nothing else it is a commitment to us!! 🙏❤️💙

Sending much love

J & G, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

Every time I go, I learn something different about myself and my wife. Learning to understand my own habits, helps improve my relationship. We all have more than one habit to understand. A fantastic experience and a pleasure to be a part of.

MR, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

One of the most in-sightful, enlightening and at times difficult experiences of my life. We came with an open heart and we left with an open new world for our relationship. A thank you to Jane and Sheila simply isn't enough. Every couple give each other this gift of a Retreat.

JD, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

I think most couples would benefit from engaging in this workshop.

GM, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

I was very hesitant at first but became much more comfortable as the weekend went on. I learnt so much about myself and my wife and learnt many good techniques and tools to help our relationship. It was well worth doing and will be recommending to friends and family. Thank you so much.

LW, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

I was unsure about whether the Retreat would be useful for us but it has been the most useful thing we could do for our relationship. I now have a good understanding of how conflict arises in our relationship and how to handle it by moving towards each other instead of away. The Retreat has made us a better couple AND better, healthier individuals. 

AW, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

After attending a number of Retreats with my wife I am still finding new avenues to explore for myself and our relationship. The tools and experience have made a real practical improvement in our relationship and further growth as a couple.

AP, South Australia 17-19 September 2021

The Retreat was a perfect mix of practical tools, exercises in introspection, as well as practicing different ways of connecting to your partner, no matter how troubled or good your relationship is.

AM, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

Gives you the tools to improve your relationship. Helps identify any issues that maybe hindering your relationship. Fantastic location and venue. Great food!

BN, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

A welcoming, warm and safe environment to be able to reconnect with your loved one. We were nourished with both knowledge and food for an all round amazing experience. We will be back!

CO, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

Totally recommend. A warm, friendly nourishing and knowledgeable environment to nail issues in a professional and enlightening forum manner. Thank you Sheila and Jane.

DP, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

Breaks the ice with other couples very well. A rewarding weekend. I feel closer to my wife today more than i did on the Friday night. I feel as though we are on the same page. I am leaving with tools to help work on our relationship.

ER, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

This Retreat turned out to be exactly what we needed even though it was very different to what i expected. The exercises brought up deep issues that we had not recognised as being so important. We have lots of work to do. 

FS, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

I had no idea what to expect for the weekend. It exceeded my expectations. Jane and Sheila are amazing facilitators. They made everyone feel comfortable and inlcuded. There was no blaming or shaming and the exercises we had to do were incredibly beneficial and something we will continue with on a weekly basis. Jane is a great communicator and Sheila is very intuitive at being able to get to the crux of a problem and helped with practical ways of improving our communication and relationship. Thank you so much. For anyone not sure whether to do this or not - you won't regret it - do it! You will benefit as an individual as well a couple.

GT, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

Was so lovely spending the weekend with you all. We got so much out of it and were lucky to have such an open group. We were concerned about airing our dirty laundry in front of people but you guys were so honest and accepting, so thanks for that. Good luck with the rest of your journeys and hopefully we’ll get to do another workshop together at some point. Glad we did the relationship course before lockdown! I know we are in a better space for it! Thanks Jane and Sheila you were both incredible.

NJ, South Australia 16-18 July 2021

I would encourage any couple to attend these Retreats. Do not wait until you're at crisis point, save yourself time and tears. If you are in crisis these Retreats can give you hope as they did for us. We were at breaking point with nowhere else to turn. Sheila and Jane gave us a safe, loving space to unpack our mess we called marriage. We are now on our second round of Retreats and each time we are more positive and grateful for what we have achieved as a couple.

JL, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

Jane and Sheila create a warm, welcoming and safe environment that opens the door to a healing journey so essential to building and maintaining love and connection in your Relationship.

BA, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

I have really enjoyed taking time out of our busy lives to reconnect and learn about my husband. How we can communicate constructively and how we can repair our marriage. 

CB, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

A massive thank you to Jane and Sheila for saving our marriage. As a man I've learnt so much and will definitely recommend this Retreat to anyone. I will take the lessons learnt and build on them for the rest of my life. Thank you 

CL, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

I would tell any couple to attend these Retreats. They are for people with either no issues, relationship issues or individual issues. We both have grown individually and as a couple on every Retreat we've been on. They are a little bit challenging (for all the right reasons), very supportive and you get fed delicious food. Most people would come back just for the meals!!

HA, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

We were at the worst we could be, had tried counselling many times and were ready to give up. The first Retreat was our 'It can't get any worse' situation. It changed everything. No blame, no judgement, just safe open communication. Support, advice, skills and self awareness that has possibly impacted not only our now great marriage but all our Relationships.

RL, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

We needed help, because we were not going anywhere sorting out our Relationship. Being here with other couples you don't know makes it a lot easier to be truthful. The Retreat looks over the ocean and the house is amazing. 

TB, South Australia 14-16 May 2021

We got a lot more out of Retreat 1 than we were expecting. Jane and Sheila ran a very engaging Retreat and we learned a lot about our Relationship. We now have real tools to initiate the rituals needed to keep our marriage healthy and alive.

G & S, South Australia 9-11 April 2021

Relationships in order to flourish, need to be nurtured and loved. We often think as couples we are doing well until we’re not.

Learning how our past influences our actions and reactions today and relearning the simple art of communication are just two of the things we learnt. Bringing back intimacy and the rituals of love. Thanks Jane we have already booked for number two.

B & D, South Australia 9-11 April

Thanks so much and what wonderful words to start my week off with! ❤️💕 D and I took away so much from the weekend that we already agreed to book Retreat 2. Thank you 🙏

B & D, South Australia 9-11 April 2021

At each Retreat I feel we go deeper. I see more and more the importance of these weekends and how regular attendance transforms and eases what can feel ‘impossible'. Miracles can happen. Jane and Sheila create an amazing, healing and safe environment to be in. I felt respected, heard and supported every step of the way. Their generosity in what they give and offer at these Retreats is beyond anything I could imagine. Their skills, their sense of fun, their compassion, their nurturing, their wisdom and so much more, all combine to create a perfect space to heal, gain clarity and build a stronger connection. I can’t speak more highly of these two generous, lovely women, as well as the beautiful home environment and not to forget the scrumptious food they offer. I would recommend this Retreat for any couple, even those who feel content in their relationship will gain so many worthwhile gems and come away refreshed and more deeply connected. 

DO, South Australia 19-21 March 2021

Thank you and Sheila again for an amazing weekend. I am still feeling all sorts of stuff but feeling positively again which is so refreshing.

We would like to book again. I have written a quick testimony for you, but have struggled to put it into words, so I hope it's okay.

Thank you both from the bottom of my heart.

My husband and I attended this Retreat probably at the height of crisis in our marriage and it has truly transformed us. The simple and effective tools we have been given will change the way we love and communicate.

We have connected physically and emotionally again like we did when we we first fell in love.

For that we are eternally grateful to Jane and Sheila.

C & T, South Australia 9-11 October 2020

D comes to life when we do the course together. I need the course to open my mouth about my feelings or at least a bit closer to my feelings (not sure I am there yet)- so it’s just a great thing to do. Its a beautiful beautiful way to show up for her. I have not always done that and I can say I regret that. It is literally a brilliant course!! As uncomfortable as I was I am also similarly grateful.

PO, South Australia 18-20 September 2020

For any couple who would like to increase their connection and create more ease in their relationship I would highly recommend this Retreat. I'm sure that everyone who attends receives so much more than they expected.

For those relationships that seem ‘perfect', this Retreat, with these two amazing women, demonstrate how there is always room for growth and learning.

Jane and Sheila have created an environment where you feel safe, honoured and respected in every way. You will laugh, probably cry, listen more intently than you have for awhile and receive some awesome insights for yourself and your relationship. They create not only a sacred place for you to be in, but also look at and accomodate individual needs. You will have a lot of fun, not to mention the delicious food and the beautiful ambience of where the Retreat is held. 

I have the most high regard for these two beautiful souls who I love very much and I am so glad and blessed to have found them. I recommend that no couple, wherever they are at, miss this opportunity and experience to discover the possibilities and growth with in each other and in their relationship.

DO, South Australia 18-20 September 2020

We came to Jane and Sheila at a point of crisis in our relationship. Somewhere along the way we had come adrift, and lacked the perspective to understand how it was possible that we could have moved so far apart on an intimate level but could remain deeply bonded on other levels. We were guided, encouraged and nurtured through a process of discovering what actually lay at the heart of our issues, and it was a revelation that is now taking us on a path of discovery and healing. Jane and Sheila are passionate, warm, calm and their energy is so positive that we felt uplifted even while dealing with profoundly painful relationship issues.

R&N, South Australia 11-13 September 2020

We have attended Focus On Relationships Retreats for the past 5 years. We find it an invaluable asset to help ensure our relationship stays strong. The tools we have learnt enable us to communicate better and understand both each other and ourselves in a better way. Every relationship requires work, and this is the best way to ensure that work is completed.

JH, South Australia 31 July-2 August 2020

Thank you and Sheila so much for an amazing weekend. The combination of the wonderful facilitators, exercises, other couples, atmosphere, food and thoughtful touches made us feel so nurtured as we explored our relationship further.

C&L, South Australia 31 July-2 August 2020

After Retreat 3 we have even more respect and adoration for Sheila and Jane. Together they manage to provide a safe and open environment where everyone is able to explore whatever comes up for them. I have never felt so safe to express how I feel or ask any question with no judgment. Everyone is there for different reasons and the work allows for this but the underlying goal is to come back to being and feeling safe and loved to be your true self. I always walk away with a more expansive and open view of the world and a new perspective. Thank you.

HA, South Australia 10-12 July 2020

It can be difficult to navigate the journey of a relationship on your own. It is so easy to become lost in old patterns or at times feel like giving up. To have the support of these two amazing women who are ever so talented and passionate to their cause, has been eye opening and a true gift to treasure. Like a breath of fresh air, they uncovered what we could not see, set our sails straight and gave us tools and a map for our way ahead. The wonderful thing about this weekend is that you don’t have to feel there is anything to ‘fix’ in your relationship. Couples can refresh and find ways to deepen the best relationship. We can all get lost in our busy lives and making the commitment to ourselves and our relationship is both rewarding and enlightening. I have come away with so many gems, so much hope and so much gratitude. I would recommend it to every couple who has the intention to improve, deepen and reconnect in their relationship. The space is gorgeous, filled with safety and love. Perfect setting.

Many thanks and blessings to both Shelia and Jane, two very generous, wise and courageous women

DO, South Australia 7-9 Febraury 2020

The weekend was so powerful it was like attending a 10 day silent meditation course. Within the weekend there arose for me challenges, insights, learning and enlightening openings about myself, my partner and how our past can shape our present interactions. Through the understanding of these insights we've moved some blocks and now feel a sense of a refreshed bond with new tools to practice committed and responsible connection to each other and perhaps even ourselves.

It was so invaluable to share with the other three couples and of course the skillfulness, deep relatedness and experience of Jane and Sheila the facilitators.

I highly recommend this retreat to all couples, I am deeply grateful and will definitely book it in again.

JG, South Australia 7-9 February 2020

Focus on Relationships is beneficial for every couple, regardless of age, stage or issue. It allows you to gain a deeper understanding of your partner and yourself which can explain why cracks may appear at times. I have never felt so safe and supported to face any issue that arises, no matter its magnitude. It may seem daunting to do some of this in front of three other couples but you soon realise the power in sharing the experience. The work is meaningful and at times confronting and uncomfortable but the benefits far outweigh this.

The focus is on your intimate relationship with your partner but the insights and personal growth permeate through all your relationships. Jane and Sheila have different skill sets but their passion for this work is shared which means together they are a powerhouse for creating change. They are both real genuine, caring, raw and emotive. They are clearly always working on themselves so you never feel like they are up on a pedestal. I highly encourage everyone to attend a Retreat as they are affordable, powerful and will change your life. One of the highlights is the hospitality-the house where the Retreat is held is stunning and very comfortable and Janes cooking is amazing so you feel cared for and nourished on all levels.

Thank you again wholeheartedly. 

HA, South Australia 6-8 September 2019

Thank you Jane and Shiela for your guidance in helping us to rebuild our relationship. There is no doubt that in our busy lives, it’s easy to neglect our relationship and subsequently drift apart. We found that trying to reconnect on our own had become exhausting. Our relationship couldn’t seem to gain any traction and we came to you with what seemed to be a hopeless situation. After spending a short time with both of you we felt that there was hope for us. The comforting, supportive and relaxed environment that you guys create for this experience made us feel like we could tackle anything together. The techniques you use in helping us reconnect may have seemed unusual at first but we quickly found that the more we embraced the experience the more we were getting out of it. We honestly walk away from each Retreat bubbling, with new outlooks towards each other and more equipped to build a better life together. We look forward to seeing you both again soon.

JL, South Australia 6-8 September 2019

Thank you for putting together another great weekend. They always provide talking points that would otherwise never be broached, and challenges that would otherwise not be pushed through.

LR, South Australia 9-11 August 2019

As time progresses from attending Retreat 2, the messages have become more profound. Jane and Sheila, you are two remarkable women who have changed me forever. I am truly grateful for the experience. It may have taken me 69 years to learn the lessons you have provided, but I will forever be a better person, husband, father and grandfather.

Jane and Sheila are dynamic and compassionate women who together, provided us with a safe and nurturing environment to reconnect not just as a couple, but also with our own feelings and needs. Our relationship has moved back to a place of love, respect, gratefulness and joy. We have learnt a lot about ourselves and each other. Our communication skills are now much more constructive and open; we both feel heard, acknowledged and loved. It has been profoundly healing and I am grateful to them both. 

G&D, South Australia 12-14 April 2019

I've been reflecting on our weekend and realised another facet to our experience that feels important for me to share...and that has been as an observer of the relationship the two of you have. The lessons I learnt from watching you work together were almost subliminal. You are both passionate about many similar topics and experiences and sharing your skills - that was clear I think to all who witnessed the Retreat...but what was even more profound and meaningful for me was the way you honour and celebrate each other's differences and strengths with respect and high regard. I suspect one of the reasons for that is that for quite a while I have been feeling that D and my differences have been the significant force bashing an ever growing wedge between us. It is not ... and watching the way you worked together, complimenting and balancing each other in the most open and generous way was such a reassuring thing for me to see and remember. You are in your own rights, incredible women, but together you make a strong and dynamic partnership. I feel that is why you are able to create such a nurturing environment for healing and insight.

GL, South Australia 12-14 April 2019

Thank you so much to Jane and Sheila for your warmth and wisdom. We were very anxious going into the weekend Retreat as it was completely out of our comfort zone and we really had no idea what to expect. We instantly felt comfortable and open from the moment we arrived. We came to the Retreat at a crisis point in our relationship of 24 years and it was amazing to spend a weekend discovering where we had been going wrong and the amazing potential we have to start a new chapter with the toolkit you provided. We learnt a lot about ourselves individually and as a couple and took the time to appreciate and be grateful for all the positives we have in our relationship that will hopefully help us in our journey. Your generosity, gentle natures and openness are priceless.

PR, South Australia 12-14 April 2019

Thank you so much for all your wonderful teachings, along with the amazing Sheila. P and I have learnt so much from the Retreat and came home as kinder, softer and calmer lovers and partners. Our connection has deepened and you helped us iron out some 'relationship wrinkles' that were not helpful.

LW, South Australia 1-3 February 2019